Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

It has been almost three months since we adopted our black kitten Marlo, and Joe, our flame point siamese, was adopted a little over a month ago. Since then, we’ve done everything we can to make sure our three pets (including our seven-year-old rescue dog) are integrating nicely. Luckily, we’ve had very few problems, and only a couple of minor altercations to speak of. I think that’s all thanks to a few tips I picked while researching how to safely introduce new pets to each other, so I thought I’d pass along the advice that actually worked for us.

Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

When we adopted Marlo, we had our dog, plus one older cat named Ginny. As soon as we brought Marlo home from the shelter, we tucked her away in her own room so that she could get used to us and just a small portion of the house. After a couple of days she was acting settled, so we introduced her to Ginny by letting them first paw at each other under the door, and then with supervised face-to-face interactions. Finally, we let the dog have the same step-by-step introduction to the kitten. It went very easily, I think because our older cat and dog both had such a calm and patient demeanor throughout the process. We lost Ginny to kidney disease only a few weeks after adopting Marlo, but she and the kitten got along great during that time, and Marlo cuddled often with our dog. They were best buds!

Then, we suddenly had the unexpected opportunity to adopt a second kitten, and had to start all over again with the gradual introductions. You can read Joe’s adoption story here (and also find out more about Ginny’s goodbye), but the whole situation was a little more fraught with anxiety from all angles. We had just adopted this special needs kitten who had been through so much in his short life, and then we found out that Ginny’s disease was terminal. We had to say goodbye to our beloved older girl, and then get through that grief all while trying to get another new kitten settled…It was a lot, but we somehow made it work, as you can see in the photos in today’s blog post.

Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

Marlo and Joe are the best of friends now, but they weren’t quite “buddy, buddy” in the beginning. Like with Marlo, we got Joe set up in his own secluded room so that he could acclimate in peace. Unfortunately, this little guy suffered from extreme separation anxiety, which meant he screamed and howled constantly while locked up on his own. I was absolutely determined to make sure he and Marlo could be friends, though, so I kept them separated for about three full days.

It’s worth noting that John and I took turns spending lots of quality time with Joe in his room, so he was very rarely all on his own during this transition period.

Anyway, the kittens hissed and swatted at each other under the door for hours during those initial days, and I really thought it was going to be hopeless, but the one thing that worked for us was feeding them treats together on opposite sides of the door. I would wait until Marlo was as close to the door as possible without her hissing at Joe. Then, I gave Marlo a treat on her side of the door, and tossed a treat under the door to Joe. I did this over and over, all the while coaxing Marlo closer to the door and Joe. Eventually they were calmly eating treats only a few inches apart separated just by the door. I did this a few times throughout the last day, and then I started noticing that the swatting under the door later on after treat time had turned more “playful” than “aggressive.” That’s when I knew they were ready for face-to-face action.

Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

John and I supervised their first official meeting and it went much like we expected—angry swatting and hissing—but we just took things slow, and kept feeding them treats together until they learned to trust each other. It felt like such a miracle when just one day after their first face-to-face introduction I found them playing together up and down the hallways of our home. The next day they were cuddling and grooming each other, and they’ve been inseparable ever since.

As for our dog, she’s done a great job with the kittens. She’s very patient and never charges them. Marlo isn’t quite as cuddly with the dog anymore now that she’s grown, but Joe is positively obsessed with the dog. Joe’s in a bit of a biting phase, so we’ve heard our pup bark a warning to the kitten several times when Joe’s cuddling turned into nipping, but so far there haven’t been any major brawls between any of our three pets.

Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

I can’t help but think that our little trio of fur babes was meant to be. We lost Ginny so unexpectedly, and our other older cat Tonks in much the same way only a month before that. This summer has left us grief-stricken, but the kittens have helped us refocus on the good things in life. I think we’re finally on the other side of a really rough summer. Here’s hoping our fall season is a happy, laughter-filled one! Please leave your own pet integration tips in the comments because I know we can learn a lot from each other, and make sure you also check out this post I wrote all about learning how to kitten-proof your home.

Tips For Integrating New Pets At Home

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Our Main Bathroom Makeover Reveal

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

There’s one type of home renovation that intimidates the heck out of me, and that’s bathrooms. We managed a fairly extensive renovation in one of the bathrooms at our old house, and I don’t ever want to go through that again! All we did was hire someone to update the tiny shower stall in that space with new tile, new plumbing, and a new glass surround, but the process was such a mess and took forever. I work from home, so managing contractors isn’t all that much of a scheduling hassle, but there’s just something about being in the house working around contractors that elevates my anxiety. Am I going to be in their way? Are they going to find something sinister behind the walls or under the floor? Will I bother them if I have to go make a cup of tea? It’s all just generally very stressful.

So, before we even bought our new house, I wanted to make sure that the bathrooms were usable as-is for as long as possible. I love the idea of designing a bathroom from the ground up, but it’s not something I really want to tackle any time soon—not that my meager home budget would allow for one anyway! Happily, the two bathrooms in our new-to-us ranch home seem to be working great, and I have been able to make cosmetic changes over the past year so that the rooms look and feel more like “us” without digging too deeply behind the walls and under the floors (if at all).

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Those photos above show the bathroom in our main bedroom suite before we had moved in. The busy vintage wallpaper from the bedroom carried into the bathroom, making it feel even smaller than it really was, and the bulky upper cabinet, dated light, and ornate mirrored medicine cabinet just didn’t fit in with our modern, clean style.  You may remember the hall bathroom makeover we completed about four months into living here? Well, that process taught me that paint and new fixtures can really transform a bathroom without having to hire contractors, so I decided to put my head down and give our main bathroom the same treatment.

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I ultimately did things a little bit backwards with this makeover because my motivation for tearing down yet another room’s worth of wallpaper was practically non-existent by this point. Instead, I asked my dad to come help me install a new light fixture and faucet. I figured making those two key changes would help jump-start my energy for tackling the wallpaper—and it worked! We hung a gorgeous 3-bulb light fixture over the existing vanity (it matches the 4-bulb light fixture that we put in the hall bathroom), and then I hung a gold-framed mirror below that.

Once those items were checked off the list, Dad and I installed a new gold faucet, which also matches the pair we put in the hall bath. Consistency was key with these bathrooms since they’re so close to one another. I also love rebuying the same fixtures for room projects within one home because it takes some of the guess work out of picking items to buy. I knew the fixtures and plumbing accents in our hall bathroom worked great and were fairly easy to install, so that made buying for our main bathroom super quick and painless.

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The new light and faucet made such a difference in this tiny bathroom, and gave me the push I needed to tackle the wallpaper once and for all. It feels like I have spent nearly the entire past 10 months removing wallpaper from the rooms in our new home. The kitchen, my home office/studio, and our hall bathroom really gave me a run for my money in terms of wallpaper removal. The walls had not been properly prepped, so the wallpaper took many, many days to remove in each space, and then I spent many more days fixing the walls in each room to then suffer through painting.

All in all, it was an arduous process that I wasn’t looking forward to with our main bathroom. But the good (unexpected) news is that the main bathroom wallpaper actually came off really easily, what I assume, is thanks to proper professional installation way back when. Maybe it went up in the ’70s? By the way, I love that “1972” signature we found behind the old medicine cabinet, don’t you?!

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The photo you see above of the room sans wallpaper is a pretty good indication of what the space looked like for about two months after I finished wallpaper removal. It was a straightforward process, yes, but still exhausting, and I knew that wall repair was going to be just as unappealing. But I finally mustered the energy for one more big push to the finish line two months later, and got to work prepping the walls for paint.

First, I sprayed the walls liberally with this wallpaper paste remover concentrate liquid. I let that sit, and then I wiped the walls down with a Scrub Daddy sponge soaked in a bucket full of hot water and dish detergent. I scrubbed and scrubbed to remove all final traces of wallpaper glue, and then I sprayed the walls one more time with all-purpose cleaner and wiped them down again, this time with a microfiber towel. Finally, I patched all of the left-over holes and dings using my go-to spackling compound. I let that dry, and then John helped by sanding everything smooth for me and vacuuming all of the dust and debris.

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

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To finish, I primed the walls using Zinsser 1-2-3 primer, let that dry, and then painted on two coats of “Sea Salt” paint from Sherwin-Williams. I love how the light blue/green color complements the vintage wallpaper, which I did decide to leave up (at least for now) in our main bedroom just outside the door to this bathroom. After that, it was just a matter of bringing in all of the pretty things I had been hoarding to complete the room—things like a wall shelf, pretty art, and other little decorative bathroom accents. Keep scrolling to see the finished results, including a side-by-side before and after shot!

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Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

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Resources: Faucet, Mirror, Vanity Light, Light Bulbs, Trash Can, Wall Shelf, Towel Hooks, Paint Color, Shower Curtain, Shower Head, Towels, Abstract Art, Black and White Art, Vintage Rug, Hanging Macrame Plant Holder

My favorite thing about this bathroom makeover is that we were able to salvage a good bit of the original elements. The vanity stayed in place (I don’t mind the clean white silhouette of that), the wall tile didn’t have to get ripped out (I actually love the speckled finish and square shape), and the toilet and shower work just fine. Because we were able to work with those main pieces, we kept costs way down. You can tally up all of the resources I linked to above if you want, but I don’t think this project cost much more than a couple hundred dollars, at most! A lot of the things I used that are linked above actually came over from our old house anyway, so I don’t count them as part of the final renovation total.

So, what do you think of our “new” retro bathroom? Do you like the fixtures and wall color we chose? What would you have done differently? I’d love to know if you would have gone all out with a full gut job bathroom renovation, so let me know in the comments below. It’s always fascinating for me to hear how people would tackle a room makeover differently, so never hesitate to weigh in with your own thoughts and opinions! Who knows…Maybe this is just “Phase One”…Stay tuned.

Mid-Century Bathroom Renovation Makeover

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